Chiwawa chapakhomo ►Kuzindikira makiyi anu onse

Imodzi mwa nkhani zomwe zatsutsana kwambiri masiku ano ndi za nkhanza zapakhomo, ndi momwe chiwawa cha abambo chikugwiritsidwira ntchito mu code code. Izi ndi chifukwa chakuti pamitu ya nkhani, mawonetseredwe opangidwa ndi mbali zosiyanasiyana za chikhalidwe cha anthu sanasiye kuonekera ndipo ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zofunika kwambiri zomwe World March for Nonviolence tsatirani

Nkhanza zapakhomo zimaphimbidwa ndi ziphuphu, ndiko kuti, uli ndi malamulo ake ndi malamulo omwe anthu omwe amachitira chigawenga amachitiramo chiweruziro. Ngati wina ali ndi vuto la chikhalidwe ichi, ndi bwino kuganizira funani alangizi a zamalonda kuti azisokoneza mabanja, popeza akhoza kukhala akatswiri abwino pankhaniyi yomwe imathandiza kuthetsa zovuta zomwe zakhala zikuchitika kale.

Chiwawa chapakhomo chimakhalabe vuto lalikulu lomwe anthu ali nalo lerolino, ndipo chifukwa chake chimaphatikizapo mikangano yosiyana pakati pa anthu omwe nthawi zonse zimachitika mofanana ndi chiwawa cha m'banja, chiwawa kwa onse LGBT kapena kwa wina aliyense wa m'banja, ana, akazi kapena anthu okalamba, pakati pa magulu ena.

Chiwawa chochitira nkhanza m'banja akuphatikizidwa mu lamulo lachiwawa m'banja. Ngati mukuvutika ndi zochitika ngati zomwe tazitchula m'ndime yapitayi, nkofunika kupita kwa akuluakulu ovomerezeka kapena kupeza thandizo la akatswiri kuthetsa vutoli.

Chiwawa cha m'banja: Tanthauzo

La ndondomeko ya nkhanza za m'banja Ndizochita zachiwawa zomwe zimachitika m'nthaŵi yomwe imatanthauzira mawu omwewo indica, "domo", ndiko, nyumba kapena nyumba. Chiwawa ichi chimagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi wachibale wina kumbali ina, ndipo amachitanso zachiwawa zomwe zimachokera ku kugwiritsidwa ntchito kwa mphamvu, kuvutitsidwa, kuopsezedwa kapena kuzunzidwa.

Izi ziyenera kuchitika mkati mwa banja ndipo ziyenera kuchitidwa ndi munthu wina m'banja kuti adziwe wina wa banja limodzi. Anthu amtunduwu kapena achiwawa amachititsa kuti:

• Chiwawa chakuthupi, limene limamasuliridwa kuchitapo kanthu kugunda kuvulaza munthuyo.
• Chiwawa chogonana, kwa membala aliyense m'banja.
• Zopseza, kaya zakuthupi kapena zamaganizo
• Nkhanza za m'banja
• Kuzunzidwa kapena kuzunzidwa kwachuma zomwe zimaphatikizapo kutaya ufulu.

Mmodzi wa zikhalidwe za nkhanza zapakhomo, ndizovuta kwambiri kuwerengetsa deta yeniyeni, chifukwa chakuti nthawi zambiri anthu amanyansidwa ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu komanso samatsutsa poyera chiwawa cha m'banja mwazochitika zonse. Izi zimapangitsa kuti zikuluzikulu zikhale zovuta kuti azimayi azitha kuzunzidwa mwachiwawa kusiyana ndi nthawi zonse. Pafupi ndi msinkhu wotani kapena nthawi yomwe chikhalidwe cha chikhalidwe cha anthu chimafala kwambiri.

Ndikofunika kupempha chithandizo, ndi kupeza njira yothetsera mavuto, ndipo izi ndi zina mwa zizindikiro za nkhanza zapakhomo ndi kusungulumwa pakati pa munthu kapena banja lomwe likukhudzidwa, chifukwa malinga ndi kafukufuku wamankhwala a kunyumba, nthawi zambiri sizinachitike ngakhale, kuti awerengedwe kwa mamembala ena a bwenzi la mabwenzi.

Khoti la chilango cha nkhanza za m'banja

Zambiri zimakambidwa za chigamulo cha chilango cha nkhanza za m'banja, ndipo ndizo nthawi zambiri kusokonezeka ndi lamulo la nkhanza za amai.

Chinthu choyamba kufotokoza ndi chakuti ngakhale awiriwo ali ndi chiwerengero nthawi zambiri amaperekedwa m'banja, ndipo amasonkhanitsidwa m'nkhani 173 ndi 153 ya Code Criminal, ndi mitundu iwiri ya chiwawa mosiyana, ngakhale akadali mitundu ya chiwawa pambuyo pa zonse.

Kodi tikudziwa chiyani za lamulo lokhudza zachiwawa?

Nkhanza zapakhomo m'khodi ya chilango Icho chidzakhala chomwe chimagwiritsidwa ntchito mkatikati mwa banja, ndiko kuti, pa anthu omwe amakhala mu mtima womwewo. Choncho cholinga chake ndikuteteza anthu ambiri omwe amachitikirapo omwe angathe kuchitika mkati mwa gululi ndipo ndi zovuta kuchoka chifukwa cha mgwirizano umene ulipo pakati pawo.

Milandu yomwe ikhoza kuchitika pansi pa chipembedzo ichi ndi yaikulu kwambiri, chifukwa chake lamulo limatsegula chitseko cha kutanthauzira kwapadera, chifukwa nthawi zambiri limayang'ana anthu omwe ali otetezeka, kapena m'maboma ochezera abambo. Choncho, m'pofunika kuphunzira phunziro lililonse kuti mudziwe zomwe zimaonedwa kuti ndi nkhanza za m'banja komanso zomwe sizili choncho.

Choncho kwa funso la Kodi nkhanza za m'banja zimatanthauza chiyani?, ikhoza kuyankhidwa ngati imodzi yomwe ikuchitika mkati mwachinyumba kapena nyumba. Ngati mukufuna kudziwa zambiri zokhudza nkhanza zapakhomo Ndikofunika kupita ku malo apadera pa nkhaniyi, mwa ogwira ntchito, ogwirira ntchito komanso odziwa ntchito omwe angapangitse anthu kuti azipezeka kwa aliyense amene akufunikira kudziwa ndi zofunikira pa phunziroli.

Kodi tinganene chiyani kuti nkhanza za m'banja zimakhala chimodzimodzi?

Lamulo lokhudza nkhanza za m'mabanja limatsimikizira kuti izi zidzasokonezedwa ngati chiwawa chikugwiritsidwa ntchito, thupi, maganizo kapena maganizo pa otsatira otsatirawa:

• Mabanja, okwatirana kapena okwatirana kale
• Mwamuna ndi mkazi wake, ngakhale kuti sakhala ndi wachiwawa ngati mgwirizano wolimba umalowa naye.
• Ana, okwera, okondedwa, achibale, achibale apamtima ndi okwatirana, onse ayenera kukhala ndi wozunza.
• Ochepa omwe sangathe kapena kukhala ndi makolo, kusamalira, kulimbikitsa kapena kuteteza wokwatirana.
• Munthu wophimbidwa amene ali mkati mwachisumbu chakukhala pamodzi ndi wachiwawa.
• Anthu ovutika omwe ali osungidwa ndi osungidwa m'malo opitilira anthu.

Pakalipano, chifukwa cha mavuto azachuma anthu ambiri amakakamizidwa kubwerera ku banja lakale, ndikukhala limodzi palimodzi, motero kumayambitsa zochitika zatsopano pakati pa abale apabanja.

Zochita zachiwawa zomwe zimachitika pakati pa ogona nawo okha, izo sizikugwirizana mkati za chiwawa cha m'banja, ngakhale kuti amakakamizika kukhala pamodzi kuti apereke ndalama, pali ufulu wosiyana. Zina mwa izo palibe mgwirizano wamaganizo, kaya kudzera mwa iwo kapena mamembala awo omwe ali pakhomo.

Nkhanza za m'banja malinga ndi WHO, akunena kuti chiwerengero cha mazunzo olakwira akazi omwe amachitira anzawo kapena omwe anali nawo kale ndi apamwamba kwambiri kuposa omwe angakhale ovutika ndi alendo. Chomwe chimapangitsa munthu kukhala wamtundu wapamwamba kwambiri wamaganizo ndi amthupi omwe amathetsa kuwononga maganizo awo, chifukwa nthawi zonse amachitira zachiwawa.

Zochita zonsezi za chiwawa kwa iwo zinawonjezera mwayi wodwala matenda aakulu nthawi yayitali kapena yayitali.

Mbiri ya nkhanza zapakhomo

Kwa zaka zambiri, nkhanza zapakhomo kapena zapakhomo zimaphatikizapo mkangano uliwonse umene wachitika m'banja, popanda kupanga kusiyana. Ndipo ndikuti ngakhale masiku ano ndipo pakhala paliponse Amuna akuphedwa ndi nkhanza zapakhomoNthawi zambiri izi zimayambitsidwa ndi mkazi kapena chifukwa chodana ndi mwamuna ndi mkazi.

Pachifukwa ichi, kusiyana kunayambitsidwa pakati pa chiwawa chomwe amuna amachitira pakati pa banja komanso zomwe zimawavutitsa ndi amayi. Ndipo, amuna ochulukirapo amachitiridwa nkhanza kapena amachitiridwa nkhanza ndi amuna ena omwe amawatcha kuti nkhanza zapakhomo, ndipo amayi amachitiridwa nkhanza ndi amuna, osati amayi ena, nthawi zambiri.

Choncho, chifukwa chake kugawanika kwadagwiridwa ndi malamulo a nkhanza zapakhomo, zomwe zimatchedwa nkhanza za amuna mkati mwa chiwerengero cha nkhanza za m'banja

Tsiku la nkhanza zapakhomo

Sikuli tsiku lenileni la nkhanza zapakhomo, koma pali tsiku lapadziko lonse lachiwawa kwa akazi. Aliyense wa November 25 amakumbukiridwa kuyambira chaka cha 1981. Cholinga chake ndi kuwalimbikitsa ndikudziwitsa anthu za nkhanza zomwe amayi akukumana nawo padziko lapansi chifukwa chakuti zili choncho.

Pa chifukwa chimenechi ndizofunikira kwambiri amadziwa chigamulo cha chilango chomwe chimaphatikizapo nkhanza zapakhomo, kudziwa komwe angaphatikizepo zosiyana ndi kusaganiza kuti zigawenga zonse zimaweruzidwa mofanana.

Mabungwe omwe amamenyana ndi chiwawa ichi

Mabungwe osiyanasiyana omwe amapereka chithandizo kwa anthu omwe adakumana ndi milandu ya nkhanza zapakhomo komanso milandu ya nkhanza za amai angathe kupezeka padziko lonse lapansi. Ndipo ndi zimenezo Chiwawa m'banja, kusudzulana ndi kusintha kwa maganizo Zikhoza kukhala zovuta komanso zautali. Anthu omwe akudutsa mufunikira izi nthawi zambiri amasamalira maganizo, nyumba yothandizira ndi magulu a anthu kuti awathandize kuthetsa vutoli.

Alipobe ziwawa zapakhomo, chifukwa ndi paradimu yomwe imaphatikizapo anthu osiyanasiyana, amuna, achinyamata, amayi, ana kapena okalamba. Mlandu uliwonse uli wosiyana ndipo umathandizidwa ndi mabungwe osiyanasiyana omwe amamenyana mofanana.

Mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya nkhanza zapakhomo

• Chiwawa chakuthupi: kuwonongeka kwa thupi, zilonda, mikwingwirima, mikwingwirima, chifukwa cha kukwapula, kukankhira kapena kukankha pakati pa ena.
• Zochita zachiwawa: kuyesa, mantha, mantha, kufuula kapena nsanje.
• Chiwawa cha m'banja: kugonana ndi zopondereza. Kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu molakwika pa munthu yemwe akufunsidwa kuti apeze zochitika zogonana zosafuna ndi wina wa maphwando.
• Chiwawa cha m'banja: Izi ndizofala ndipo nthawi zambiri zimasokonezeka. Kutaya ndalama kapena kusokoneza ndalama kumachitika pamene wina wa maphwando alibe, nthawi zambiri amachititsa manyazi.

Nkhanza zapakhomo ndi zoyenera kuchita

Zifukwa za nkhanza za m'banja zingakhale zambiri ndipo ndicho chifukwa chake ambiri amadabwa kuti achite chiyani pakakhala nkhanza zapakhomo. Nkhanza za nkhanza m'banja zimalangidwa ndi lamulo, choncho ngati munthu akukhala chinthu chabwino kwambiri ndiye kuti apite kwa apolisi kuti apereke chidandaulo kuti apeze yankho pamodzi.

Chimodzi mwa njira zomwe zimafunsira ozunzidwa pamene ziwawa izi zikuchitika ndizo Tengani zithunzi za nkhanza zapakhomo, chifukwa izi zidzakuthandizira pa mulandu kuti adziwonetsere zomwe zinachitika. Ichi chidzakhala chimodzi mwa mayesero aakulu omwe oweruza angagwiritse ntchito kuti apambane mlanduwo.

Ndikofunika kuti mavoti onse apite kukamayesedwa, makamaka kuti munthu amene wachita chigamulo amalipire chilango chake ndipo nthawi zina angathe kulandira chithandizo. Ndipo chifukwa china chofunika kwambiri ndi chakuti ziwawa zina nkhanza adzaweruza malamulo a chilango, zambiri nkhani za nkhanza za m'banja akhoza analenga, kupanga nkhondo malamulo ayamba osavuta kuthetsa chifukwa pali milandu yambiri ndi umboni kuvomereza umboni ndi ziweruzo zomwe zidzaperekedwa.

Nkhanza za m'banja

Maganizo nkhanza ndi amene amafuna kuukira anthu kudzera akuyendeni pansi maganizo, kugwiritsa ntchito maganizo awo kuti akuchita zinthu kuti apite ndi mfundo zawo kapena zofuna, basi chifukwa kuti chisoni kwa winawake, Pankhaniyi wozunza.

Nkhanza zapakati pa LGBT

Chiwawa cha LGBT m'banja ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zatsopano zomwe ziyenera kuikidwa mu maphunziro, ziwerengero ndi malamulo. Ndipo chitsanzo chatsopano cha banja sichinazindikire zaka makumi angapo zapitazi ndipo nthawi yafika pozindikira kuti amachita zachiwawa, nkhanza ndi chiwawa monga m'nyumba zina.

Nkhanza zapakhomo kwa amuna: ndizochita zotani

Izi ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zovuta pakati pa nkhanza za m'banja, Anthu ambiri amaganiza kuti amuna amaphedwa ndi nkhanza zapakhomo, musawerengedwe ngati imfa zakufunika.

Chimene chiyenera kuonekeratu ndi chakuti zochita zonse zachiwawa ndi zofanana ndipo miyoyo yonse imakhala yofanana pakati pa anthu. Chifukwa chomwe izi zikupha, ndipo anthu omwe amawapha sizinali zofanana ndi pamene wina amapezeka chifukwa cha nkhanza za amayi.

Amuna akuphedwa ndi nkhanza zapakhomo

Amuna ambiri amafa nthawi zambiri m'manja mwa amuna ena, ndipo pazifukwa zosiyanasiyana sizimagwirizana nthawi zonse. M'malo mwake, nkhanza zomwe amachitira akazi pazochitika zapakhomo zimapangidwa ndi amuna komanso pansi pa dongosolo lofanana.

Kodi tinganene kuti makolo akale ndi chiyambi cha chiwawa?

Ofufuza ambiri amaika mtundu wa banja lachibadwidwe monga chifukwa cha nkhanza zapakhomo komanso za amuna. Pamene zitukuko zinayamba kuzizindikira iwo anayamba kupanga magulu otetezera monga malamulo amtundu wa chiwawa ndi chiwawa.

mbiri wakhala linapanga kuzungulira mphamvu ya jenda wamwamuna, potero kukhazikitsa mabanja, chinkaimira mphamvu olimba kuti boma (linakhazikitsidwa ndi anthu) monga iwo angakhoze bwino bata ndi ulembedwe mwa ziphunzitso banja kholo anali woyenera "banja labwino".

Mphamvu ndi chikhalidwe ichi pa zomwe zilipo komanso ziyenera kukhazikitsidwa mwa banja zakhala zikupanga mphamvu ndi chiwawa zomwe lero, pamene ziphunzitso zambiri zamasulidwa, zikupitiriza kupitiriza lingaliro, ndiye munthu mnyumbamo State (masculine) mudziko, amene ayenera kulamulira ndi kulamulira kuti chirichonse chitsatire dongosolo lake lokhazikitsidwa.

Nkhanza zapakhomo sizinthu zomwe zimachitika kokha m'dziko kapena m'chikhalidwe china. Ambiri angaganize kuti m'mayiko otukuka, nkhanza zapakhomo ndizochepa, kapena kuti chigamulo chowombera chokhudzana ndi nkhanza zapakhomo chimagwira ntchito kwambiri kuposa m'mayiko ena omwe akuwoneka kuti akupitiriza.

Koma zoona ndizo Mwachitsanzo, nkhanza zapakhomo ku United Statesm, amene ali amati limodzi la mayiko ambiri otukuka, angapo chiwawa ovutitsa zoweta, chifukwa yekha mu 2015 1600 akazi ambiri anaphedwa ndi anthu amene anakhalabe kapena anakhala paubwenzi.

Monga kudafotokozedwa pamwamba, zotsatira za nkhanza ndi choopsa chifukwa ngati pamapeto pake kukathera ku kupha, kutha kwa banja ndi lalikulu kwambiri popanga laling'ono kwambiri pa nyumba thupi ndiponso maganizo mpaka kalekale kuwonongeka.

Mchitidwe wamtundu uwu umapezeka muzinthu zonse zachuma, ziribe kanthu mavuto azachuma omwe ali nawo, nkhanza zapakhomo komanso makamaka nkhanza zogonana zimatha kuchitika, monga nkhani yotchuka ya nkhanza za m'banja la Osvaldo Rios. Munthuyu ndi wotchuka kwambiri wa sopo opera yemwe ali ndi zodandaula zambiri za nkhanza zapakhomo.

Chiwawa cha m'banja chimakhala choopsa, ndipo nkofunika kuthetsa izi podzudzula milandu yomwe ikuvutitsidwa, chifukwa ndiyo njira yokhayo yothetsera izo ndikuyesera kukhala ndi moyo wabwino.

Zizindikiro za nkhanza za m'mabanja ku Spain

Mu code ya chilango cha nkhanza zapakhomo ku Spain mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya nkhanza ikuphatikizidwa, yomwe imakhala ndi zosiyana ndi nkhanza zapakhomo.

Chifukwa cha luso lamilandu, lero mukhoza kuwerenga deta zambiri kuchokera nkhanza zapakhomo m'madera a Chisipanishi, kupanga thupi ili likhale lamphamvu ndi lamphamvu ndikukumana ndi chiyeso cha nkhanza za m'mabanja ndi zosiyana ndi malamulo ndi zolemera.

Mkangano kwa antchito omwe amazunzidwa panyumba

Pamene inu zowawa nkhanza atsogolere mabungwe ena wolembedwa ntchito yakulipidwa anthu awa mu ntchito zosiyanasiyana, motero mwina banja, adziimire paokha ndi kupeza mtima amukane machitidwe osiyanasiyana achiwawa zowawa.